Monday, July 03, 2006

Koreans problem

Now I am facing on serious problem between Japan and Korea. On Korean culture, being polite is very important, especially to old people.

One day, one Japanese girl asked to Korean guy to make a birthday party. But she was the girl that he loved before. He had had a birthday party for that girl. At that time, he confessed his feeling, actually it was not clear, just he gave her a present. But since that, she avoided talking with him, and she had never used his present, bug.

Nevertheless, suddenly she called him and met in front of our dorm. And She asked him about her friend's birthday party. You know, it is very impolite, definetely because she wasn't supposed to help them at all. I was so suprised to hear that. She shouldn't have relyed on him.

He is very kind so He accepted at her request, but actually he was disappointed about Japanese. He did his best for her birthday party, I recognize. But her behavior was terrible. He talked about that with other Korean guys. Of course thay got angry the impoliteness.

The guy who talked me this problem was worried about friendship between Japanese and Korean. He wsa really sad to what the Korean guy said, "I was disappointed about Japanese."

But actually Japanese girls helped them as much as possible. So it was better than I expected.

Now we are best friends. I found that I should have studied about each country's culture.

1 comment:

Miki said...

I'm sorry about my expression.It was hard to say. But now we are best friends!! But I thought I had to learn not only American culture but also other countries' culture.